dinosaurbandaids:

dinosaurbandaids:

Pro tip: You don’t really understand someone’s bio? No clue about that character? You want to know more about the muse? You have difficulties figuring out how to make your muses interact because it’s an OC? 

Let the mun of the blog tell you about their character. 

Most people will get super excited when people ask questions about their muse, and they will happily tell you everything you want to know. You will not only get the information you wanted, you also made someone very happy because people are interested in their muse, and you’re on a good way of making a new friend and create a lovely relationship between your muses.

Alright, what bugs me most about this post, and all the notes it gets, is the fact that I dare to say 90% of the people who reblog it are all “yes, send ME questions! I love questions!”. There was a reason I never said “Ask questions about my muse” in this post. This is not an invitation for other people to ask about your muse. This is a nudge to get out of the, what I call, “princess in the tower” syndrome so many people on here suffer from. Endlessly waiting for other people to come to them instead of just making the first step and talking to them.

YOU go to OTHERS and ask THEM questions about THEIR muse. Not the other way around. This is what we need here. Not even more people sitting in their tower and waiting for a knight in shining armour to come and send you memes, ask you questions, and approach you for plotting.